Promise
A girl is crying
Her father promises her to buy a doll
But he forgets
A teenager was looking
The examination slip shows he fails
He promises to study hard
But he doesn’t
So many people make promises
Some keep it
But many don’t
A promise
Easy to make
Hard to fulfill
Except for those determined
One
Who fulfills his promise
Even a deed
Small a mustard seed
Will be rewarded
Assalamualaikum..
hmm..cuti dah nak habis..dah lebih sebulan duk kat rumah, akhirnye kena pulang ke kuantan pulak..tak sabar rasanya nak balik kuantan..hmm..dapat posting apa lah agaknye..curious.. 
akhir-akhir ni ramai betul kawan-kawan semesti yg mendirikan rumahtangga..antaranya..bulan ni..afzan nur faiz, megat and shikhin, and juga khairul amilin…semuanya area-area kl..sure ramai kawan-kawan semesti yg pergi kenduri diorang tu..best nye..
bulan depan pulak..alyn and nik..and ada lagi..tapi masih dirahsiakan oleh empunya diri.. agaknya in 5 years time bile buat gathering..semua dah boleh bawa anak-anak masing-masing..
sedar tak sedar dah 6 tahun dah habis sekolah dah dah 6 tahun jugaklah bergelar budak medic uia..time passes by.. so much things has happen.. and yet to happen..
so much memories..
good and bad..
remebered and forgotten..
Friend
With whom are you going
A father asks his son
A friend
Comes the answer
One friend or many friends
It doesn’t matter
As long as the friend is special
Someone to tell
Someone to hear
Someone to share
And that is a friend
Sometimes difficult
Sometimes takes time
To find a friend
That really cares
Happy times and sad times
A friend is always there
Rekreasi minda
Bos: Aku dengar ngko selalu hilang time kerja, apasal?
Pekerja: Saya pergi semayang bos!
Bos: Aku bukan tak bagi ngko semayang, tapi pastikan keje siap dulu!
Pekerja: (dalam hati)..Masya-Allah!Dia tau ke apa yang dicakapkan ni?
Bos: Ngko semayang kuat-kuat pun belum tentu masuk syurga! ….kalau kerja tak siap, syarikat rugi juta-juta! Camana orang Islam nak maju?
Pekerja: Bos keje sampai kaya raya pun, bukan boleh beli syurga!
Bos: Er…anu..bukan camtu maksud aku!…Err……
..kite seringkali terlupa, dalam usaha mencari kekayaan di dunia, kite lupa pada pemilik kekayaan yang hakiki, iaitu pencipta kita yang Maha Esa..ingat Allah selalu, jangan kite lupa, insyaAllah..
Qana’ah
Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda : Qana’ah adalah suatu harta yang tidak akan habis
Qana’ah bermaksud menerima apa yang ada. Redha dengan pemberian Allah ta’ala kepada dirinya, kerana merasa bahawa memang itulah yang sudah menjadi rezekinya. Namun sama sekali tidak menghentikan usaha untuk menambah yang kurang dan berusaha menyempurnakan sesuatu yang dirasakan belum memuaskan. Orang yang memiliki sifat qana’ah ini pasti tidak mempunyai sifat tamak terhadap pemberian dan tidak loba dengan harta yang menjadi hak milik orang lain.
..this is an article that i get from the net.. it is simple to understands and logic. Sis Yasmin wrote this masa isu hangat tentang sisters in Islam yg suddenly annouce that women should lead prayers.
This answer was kindly provided by Sister Yasmin Mogahed, a member of Ask About Islam Editorial Staff. Yasmin is an Egyptian-American journalist based in Wiscons in,USA.
What we so often forget is that God has honored women by giving them value in relation to God- not in relation to men. But as western feminism erases God from the scene, there is no standard left but men. As a result, the western feminist is forced to find her value in relation to a man. As in doing so she has accepted that man is the standard, and thus a woman can never be a full human being until she becomes just like a man – standard.
When a man cut his hair short, she wanted to cut her hair short. When a man joined the army, she wanted to join the army, and so on. She wanted these things for no other reason than because the “standard” had it.
What she didn’t recognize was that God dignifies both men and women in their distinctiveness, not their sameness. And on March 18, Muslim women made the very same mistake.
For 1400 years, there has been a consensus of scholars that men are to lead Prayer. As a Muslim woman, why does this matter? The one who leads Prayer is not spiritually superior ion any way. Something is not better just because a man does it. And leading Prayer is not better just because it is leading. Had it been the role of women or had it been more divine, why wouldn’t the Prophet have asked Lady A’ishah or Lady Khadijah, or Lady Fatima – the greatest women of all time – to lead? These women were promised heaven and yet they never lead Prayer.
But now, for the first time in 1400 years, we look at a man leading Prayer and we think, “That’s not fair.” We think so, although God has given no special privilege to the one who leads. The imam is no higher in the eyes of God than the one who prays behind. On the other hand, only a woman can be a mother. And the Creator has given special privilege to a mother. The Prophet taught us that heaven lies at the feet of mothers. Burt no matter what a man does, he can never be a mother. So why is that not unfair?
When asked who is most deserving of our kind treatment? The Prophet replied “your mother” three times before saying “your father” only once. Isn’t that sexist? No matter what a man does, he will never be able to have the status of a mother.
And yet even when God honors us with something uniquely feminine, we are too busy trying to find our worth in reference to man, to value it or even notice it. We too have accepted man as the standard; so anything uniquely feminine is, by definition, inferior. Being sensitive is an insult, becoming a mother is degradation. In the battle between stoic rationality (considered masculine) and selfless compassion (considered feminine), rationality reigns supreme.
As soon as we accept that everything a man has and does is better, all that follows is just a knee jerk reaction: if men have it, we want it too. If men pray in the front rows, we assume this is better, so we want to pray in the front rows too. If men lead Prayer, we assume that imam is closer to God, so we want to lead prayer too. Somewhere along the line, we’ve accepted the notion that having a position of worldly leadership is some indication of ones position with God.
A Muslim woman does not need to degrade herself in this way. She has God as a standard. She has got to give her value; she doesn’t need a man here.
In fact, in our crusade to follow men, we as women never even to examine the possibility that what we have is better for us. In some cases, we even gave up what was higher only to be like men.
Fifty years ago we saw men leaving the home to work in factories. We were mothers. And yet, we saw men doing it, so we wanted to do it too. Somehow, we considered it women’s liberation to abandon the raising of another human being in order to work on a machine. We accepted that working in a factory was superior to raising the foundation of society- just because a man did it.
Then after working, we were expected to be super human- the perfect mother, the perfect wife, the perfect homemaker, and have the perfect career. And while there is nothing wrong, by definition, with a woman having a career, we soon came to realize what we had sacrificed by blindly mimicking men. We watched as children became strangers, and soon recognize the privilege we’d given up.
And so only now - given the choice - women in the west are choosing to stay home to raise their children. According to United States department of agriculture, only 31% of mothers with babies, and 18% of mothers with two or more children, are working fulltime. And of those working mothers, a survey conducted by parenting magazine in 2000, found that 93% of them say they would rather be home with their kids, but are compelled to work due to “financial obligations”. This “obligations” are imposed on women by the gender sameness of the modern west and removed from women by the gender distinctiveness of Islam.
It took women in the west almost a century of experimentation to realize a privilege given to Muslim women 1400 years ago. Given my privilege as a woman, I only degrade myself by trying to be something I’m not, and in all honesty, don’t want to be a man. As women, we will never reach true liberation until we stop trying to mimic men and value the beauty in our own God given distinctiveness.
If given a choice between stoic justice and compassion, I choose compassion. And if given a choice between worldly leadership and heaven at my feet, I choose heaven.
..Ubat yang terbaik untuk hati yang luka ialah iman yg kuat..
Bismillahir rahmanir rahim..
dengan nama Allah yang Maha Pemurah lagi Maha Mengasihani..
Selawat dah salam buat Rasul junjungan,
Nabi Muhammad sallawahu ‘alaihi wasallam..
This is a poem witten by my mother. i would like to dedicate this poem to all my friends, especially kawan-kawan sekuliah medic di kuantan..
"untuk yg dah berjaya dapat distinction, i would like to congratule all of you for your achievement.. harapannye agar kejayaan tu makes our lecturer happy and feel as if we appreciated their effort.."…. thanks to all our lecturer that had put great efforts to make sure that we learn.. Allah will give you rewards for all you’ve done, insyaAllah..
"to kawan-kawan yang still struggling.. saya doakan korang semua tak berputus asa dan teruslah berusaha.." you don’t have to get distinction to be a good doctor..as long as you are honest, kind and trust-worthy, you are a GooD Doctor in the sight of Allah.., insyaAllah..
Effort
Someone makes an effort
And be successful
With all the fame and glamour
He soon forgets
That actually he is mere a man
He becomes proud and boastful
And with these in him
He is now a failure
Someone makes a lot of effort
But still he fails
He strives and strives
The pain only his heart can tell
His conscience tells him that
He would one day be successful
Now he is
A success that stays
Because the pain he bears
Makes him realizes that
He is mere a man
That receives a return from Allah
For all the effort
He puts
Eager to seek knowledge
He wants to be clever
Like his brother
Who is a doctor
Another child does not like to read
He likes to play
When he sees a book he runs a away
When both the children meet
They decide to read
Now both children like reading
And share the same interest
To be a person of full knowledge
Love
I love my sister, she is cute
I love my brother, he is nice
Says another
Expressions of love
Are often heard
To love an elderly
And to love a young
Some love animals
And make them pets
With love
All actions are good
Treating the loved ones
With nice food
Some can love
And some cannot
A good heart gives love
Seeing a poor man
Seeing a sick child
Seeing a wounded boy
Another heart
It is hard
Refuses to love
But prefers to be fierce and bad
Your heart
And it is your choice
To fill with love
Or otherwise without
Why
People ask why this and why that
And they answer
Because of this and because of that
Many put the blame on others
But some blame themselves
But if you do not know why
Then leave it to Allah
To plan and to decide
For He knows the in and out
And let time passes
And you’ll be amazed
At how magnificent Allah’s plan is
